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green ([personal profile] green) wrote2010-07-06 05:58 pm
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horrors of okcupid

So I was having some nice messages with a guy and he gave me his phone number (and I said I couldn't call, phone issues) and he gave me his yahoo addy so I could IM him.

After some discussion, I mentioned honestly that I'm dating someone and that we're both comfortable with the other dating other people.

Me: Full disclosure: I'm dating someone right now, but we both have agreed that dating other people is okay, as long as we are open and honest with each other.

Twenty years is a long time. How long have you been single? I've been divorced for five years now.


Respectful and honest, right? Keep in mind that he seemed like a completely average guy. He wanted to meet me in person! I said I wanted to get to know him online first.

His response to this last message was this is the stupid shit I am talking about. And I was worried about you being afraid of me lol. I just spent 20 min of my life three times plus wondering if you would even msg me back for this shit. wow. what a waste of time. so far only thing I have seen on here is crackheads fat asses, players, lesbians, and women with god so far up there asses they cannot breath without praying first. I meet more interesting people at the convienent store. see ya.

WOW. He seemed so normal!
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[personal profile] aberrant1 2010-07-06 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah. Yeah, actually, I shouldn't mock people for being single for a long time, because I can easily see myself being single for 20 years (that's not what I'm aiming for, but it could definitely happen!).

And yeah, 20 years of putting up with that guy... Wow. At least you found out early and didn't waste any more time on him!