horrors of okcupid

[green]

So I was having some nice messages with a guy and he gave me his phone number (and I said I couldn't call, phone issues) and he gave me his yahoo addy so I could IM him.

After some discussion, I mentioned honestly that I'm dating someone and that we're both comfortable with the other dating other people.

Me: Full disclosure: I'm dating someone right now, but we both have agreed that dating other people is okay, as long as we are open and honest with each other.

Twenty years is a long time. How long have you been single? I've been divorced for five years now.

Respectful and honest, right? Keep in mind that he seemed like a completely average guy. He wanted to meet me in person! I said I wanted to get to know him online first.

His response to this last message was this is the stupid shit I am talking about. And I was worried about you being afraid of me lol. I just spent 20 min of my life three times plus wondering if you would even msg me back for this shit. wow. what a waste of time. so far only thing I have seen on here is crackheads fat asses, players, lesbians, and women with god so far up there asses they cannot breath without praying first. I meet more interesting people at the convienent store. see ya.

WOW. He seemed so normal!

Comments

[bailunrui]

My experiences with online dating, especially when it comes to profiles, is that guys PROJECT PROJECT PROJECT onto everything. I'm sorry he turned out to be dickhead.

[aberrant1]

Aaaand, now we know why he's been single for 20 years!

[danveresque]

0.0

[note to self - remain single] :D

[stungunbilly]

Creeeeeepy. Good thing you escaped without giving him your phone number.

[redsnake05]

*blinks* wow. Are you a crackhead, fat ass, player, lesbian or woman-with-Jesus-shaped-buttplug? That's definitely a weird response.

[snarkasaurus]

dude's a fucking idiot. but then, that seems to be largely what exists on OKC. i had a weirdo that i had a good first date with and then he just...he got *really* vulgar and crude and didn't take any hints that it wasn't appreciated. idek. guys are welrd.

we should totally date, green, it would solve everything. :D

[doctor_jasley]

dude...man..wow.... guy really knew how to be rude and also really un-understandable in his reasoning

*hugs*

[snuffkin]

wtf. what is this guy's problem O.o

[sohotrightnow]

WHAT

[red3_standingby]

>..<

[raveninthewind]

Better to find out ASAP, so as not to waste any time on him. Just my opinion.

[turlough]

O__O