horrors of okcupid

[green]

So I was having some nice messages with a guy and he gave me his phone number (and I said I couldn't call, phone issues) and he gave me his yahoo addy so I could IM him.

After some discussion, I mentioned honestly that I'm dating someone and that we're both comfortable with the other dating other people.

Me: Full disclosure: I'm dating someone right now, but we both have agreed that dating other people is okay, as long as we are open and honest with each other.

Twenty years is a long time. How long have you been single? I've been divorced for five years now.

Respectful and honest, right? Keep in mind that he seemed like a completely average guy. He wanted to meet me in person! I said I wanted to get to know him online first.

His response to this last message was this is the stupid shit I am talking about. And I was worried about you being afraid of me lol. I just spent 20 min of my life three times plus wondering if you would even msg me back for this shit. wow. what a waste of time. so far only thing I have seen on here is crackheads fat asses, players, lesbians, and women with god so far up there asses they cannot breath without praying first. I meet more interesting people at the convienent store. see ya.

WOW. He seemed so normal!

Comments

[bailunrui]

My experiences with online dating, especially when it comes to profiles, is that guys PROJECT PROJECT PROJECT onto everything. I'm sorry he turned out to be dickhead.

[aberrant1]

Aaaand, now we know why he's been single for 20 years!

[green]

On the bright side, I have an awesome date with an awesome guy tomorrow! :D

[green]

N, he was married for that long and I was asking him how long he'd been single. I pity the poor woman who was stuck with him for that long!

[aberrant1]

Ah. Yeah, actually, I shouldn't mock people for being single for a long time, because I can easily see myself being single for 20 years (that's not what I'm aiming for, but it could definitely happen!).

And yeah, 20 years of putting up with that guy... Wow. At least you found out early and didn't waste any more time on him!

[danveresque]

0.0

[note to self - remain single] :D

[green]

There are a lot of douchebags out there. This is not the first one I've come across. But there are some decent people, too!

[stungunbilly]

Creeeeeepy. Good thing you escaped without giving him your phone number.

[green]

Yeah, no kidding. Wow.

[redsnake05]

*blinks* wow. Are you a crackhead, fat ass, player, lesbian or woman-with-Jesus-shaped-buttplug? That's definitely a weird response.

[green]

LOL I know, it's ridiculous.

[snarkasaurus]

dude's a fucking idiot. but then, that seems to be largely what exists on OKC. i had a weirdo that i had a good first date with and then he just...he got *really* vulgar and crude and didn't take any hints that it wasn't appreciated. idek. guys are welrd.

we should totally date, green, it would solve everything. :D

[green]

But you're so far away, bb. :(

[snarkasaurus]

~stretches arms out reeeeeeeeeeeally far~

[green]

LOL ILU.

[snarkasaurus]

ilu2, bb. <3

[doctor_jasley]

dude...man..wow.... guy really knew how to be rude and also really un-understandable in his reasoning

*hugs*

[snuffkin]

wtf. what is this guy's problem O.o

[sohotrightnow]

WHAT

[green]

Just an asshole. As an aside, the assholes always seem to live near me while the decent people live a fair distance away.

[red3_standingby]

>..<

[raveninthewind]

Better to find out ASAP, so as not to waste any time on him. Just my opinion.

[turlough]

O__O